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i got more than 50 messages and im not Confirmed member . am i doing something wrong?

Hello Guys, I am new here and I was selecting Gender in my profile, but it wasn't in English . Bayan and Erkek tell me what is male and what is female

it can be possible ? can we change User name in our account ? or just way for us change it make a new account here and old account delete self ( i guess we have to delete old account from admin and create it again )