I can't learn anything, what can i do about it?

[lolmeh]

Guys I need your help even if it doesn't help with shit, Since I was born I never learned any shit right for example I want to be better at something but the more I try I get even worse, I've been in the internship for almost 1 month and I haven't made any progress yet and this is not from the time Guys because this is on anything I've played LOL since 2018 and even then I was shit on it, that's when I got on this site, I think I must have a hell of a problem mental of not learning anything because every member of my family is amazing at some shit and i am shit

 

[Zohirben]

The problem is that you are comparing yourself to others, everyone can learn, but the duration and absorption capacity varies, everything takes time to learn.

 

[lolmeh]

True af , i compare to others so much cause i see they learning fast and im not making progress but even if i dont compare its the same i can try over and over again for years i cant make progress idk what is happening fr

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[BEYONDTHESKY]

i think calling everything shit is ur real problem. Don't u mind that joke dear now read carefully what u're lacking is true grit or should i say passion to get the job done so that u can be a master of a thing. There r many things u can learn & can become a master. if u put all ur efforts into a specific field or a work which can be beneficial to u and have patience until u succeed. bear in mind u can't succeed if u try to stick ur nose on too many things at once.

 

[lolmeh]

i think calling everything shit is ur real problem. Don't u mind that joke dear now read carefully what u're lacking is true grit or should i say passion to get the job done so that u can be a master of a thing. There r many things u can learn & can become a master. if u put all ur efforts into a specific field or a work which can be beneficial to u and have patience until u succeed. bear in mind u can't succeed if u try to stick ur nose on too many things at once.

Damn this touched me, I identified myself, the problem is that when you try to do something or learn something, you're slow right?
But when they pressure you or when you pressure yourself, you kind of get discouraged about it, and that's what happens to me in everything,
I dedicate myself but I lose the will when I see that my effort was not worth it.

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[gurumi69]

Damn this touched me, I identified myself, the problem is that when you try to do something or learn something, you're slow right?
But when they pressure you or when you pressure yourself, you kind of get discouraged about it, and that's what happens to me in everything,
I dedicate myself but I lose the will when I see that my effort was not worth it.

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I think you got it wrong buddy. What you truly need is passion. If you're losing interest mid way that's not passion that's just you being attracted to something temporarily. When you truly wanna do something, don't quit no matter how boring the progress is. That's what it is all about. I'm just like you, I want to do so many things but I don't start anything but I always remind myself of how I used to be. There were a few times I achieved what I really wanted without giving up. I'm sure you will too, just keep trying.

 

[jokermax20]

1- trying hard not always means success
2- they way you try important than the working hard
for example if there is a broken ladder every time you tring to use is you will fail no matter how many you try cuz you have to change your way you think
3- Trust yourself, if you don't trust yourself, no one else will
4-when you fail in some thing you have to think "why i faild " and sure the ananswer not cuz i fail in every thing like you saying okaaaaaaaaaaay
good luck brother in your life

 

[gurumi69]

Look up to the people that was able to succeed instead of comparing yourself to them, make some progress everyday, slowly but surely, you'll get there. No one can achieve something overnight, time and dedication are important.

 

[Therinceple]

I believe that everything in life is practice and focus, do not give up.

 

[sagecon123]

adderall can help you focus on new stuff ur trying to learn if you have access to that

 

[zainawan3]

when you think you cannot learn, you will not learn. bring some positive attitude towards yourself. no one is born perfect in this world, believe in yourself and work hard. everything has a price my brother, same goes for hardwork and dedication. just be yourself and don't compare yourself to others.

 

[Gladiator2018]

Guys I need your help even if it doesn't help with shit,
Since I was born I never learned any shit right for example
I want to be better at something but the more I try I get even worse,
I've been in the internship for almost 1 month and I haven't made any progress yet and this is not from the time
Guys because this is on anything
I've played LOL since 2018 and even then I was shit on it, that's when I got on this site,
I think I must have a hell of a problem mental of not learning anything because every member of my family is amazing at some shit and i am shit
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you actually learned one thing and you learned how to find MH.

 

[TheCraziy]

Just focus only on what you do

 

[M_A__1_1]

dont compar between yourself and others, everyone have special skill no one other has so you are special my friend but you should first look and search inside yourself

 

[salot1990]

Guys I need your help even if it doesn't help with shit,
Since I was born I never learned any shit right for example
I want to be better at something but the more I try I get even worse,
I've been in the internship for almost 1 month and I haven't made any progress yet and this is not from the time
Guys because this is on anything
I've played LOL since 2018 and even then I was shit on it, that's when I got on this site,
I think I must have a hell of a problem mental of not learning anything because every member of my family is amazing at some shit and i am shit
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dont compare your self to others you are different your good in other ways that they dont know

 

[Tensai-]

comparing yourself to other is a big mistake... we dont care if they so good or like a perfect person.. the important thing is you're a good person and you're not bother them..

 

[Carazy]

Go visit a professional phyctatrist. You have learned a lot of new things but you are in the mental state which you can't process through so best option is to seek medical help.

 

[Tensai-]

Go visit a professional phyctatrist. You have learned a lot of new things but you are in the mental state which you can't process through so best option is to seek medical help.

what if that person only shows his side thru online posting? and he didn't want to let know to his family and friends? should he still go to physiatrist?

 

[hackersclub9333]

stop comparing urself to other everyone is unique in his own way

 

[Alexandru Sabin]

You need to enjoy this "shit" and try to understant why you are not good at it,or just dedicate more and be confident!